We at HeartLink Counseling believe that the work of antiracism is central to our mission of helping people love and feel loved … We are going to act, and re-commit as necessary to play an active role in the healing work of antiracism.
Tips to Reignite the Romantic Spark in Your Relationship
Moving an old blog post to my new site with a few updates. Honored to be have been featured on Marriage.com several years ago with this article, “Tips to Reignite the Romantic Spark in Your Relationship.” See also below. You’ve long ago inhaled the early dating phase of forgoing sleep for intimate conversation and unquenchable sexual desire. […]
How To Validate Someone You Love
As a couples therapist I’m often in the position of gently guiding my clients to offer more empathy, validation, and comfort to each other. (I’m also gently guiding them to reach more vulnerably for this comfort, but that’s a different blog post.) Although I validate my clients with warm understanding, it doesn’t hit at the […]
U.S.-Mexico Border Crisis: An Attachment Lens
ICEEFT is an international organization of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) professionals of which I am a member, all whom work within the attachment frame supported by the leading edge of neuroscience, and are considered experts in the field of attachment. This is their official statement about the crisis happening at the U.S.-Mexico border: ICEEFT Position […]